Believe in Love

Of late, things are starting to seem too superficial. Relationships, love, marriage these words sound more of a narrative. Being practical and realist is the demand of this new world. Stop living in the fairytale they say. You never know what life may turn into. So, stop imagining and expecting a beautiful life or a partner they say. This does not really promise happiness but atleast you save yourself the heartache later.


Let us be Stubborn. We cannot stop believing in Love. Believing in the most wonderful of states that can ever exist and actually be felt by a human. Making you feel so human.

Love.

Yeah.. there are people who seem promising at the beginning who turn out to be jerks later and there are some with whom it just doesn't seem to workout. There are others who may not be as interested and there are those who can be just your friends.

Even after those heartbreaks. Even after the excruciating pain love can bring. Even after those awful times. We cannot stop believing in love. Love will always remain beautiful. One of the most beautiful feelings to have for someone. To be loved and to get love in return, not many people get to experience that.


And after experiencing it, how beautiful it is, we cannot just let that feeling go.

We want to have it again.  And not just the innocent teenager love but the mature one which just grows in time.

The one that makes you feel alive and to be thankful for each day.

The one that makes you feel lucky to have him/her by your side.

If true love had been vanished, why would they be making movies about it yet. Why would people still go out and pay for the same boy meets girl, girl meets boy and they fall in love thing again.

If there wasn't real love, wouldn't the world be collapsing already? Haha, that's exaggerating.

But, there are real couples who are lucky and also mature enough to handle each other. To accept each other and care for each other.

There are people who truly not only believe in it but also abide by it their whole lives. They make sacrifices small or big ones, just for their loved ones.

Be a cynic. Be a realist. Or be a romantic. It's your choice.

Don't stop believing in love. It's one of the most powerful and liberating feelings felt. Pain and sadness do come along. It's just how we learn to deal with it.

Believe in Love.

Keep loving. Keep believing. Keep thinking.

Who live without Love - Part 2

Continued from Part 1

http://thinkinganagha.blogspot.in/2017/02/who-live-without-love-part-1.html?m=1

Now, there are also, some who are able to express!

Is that enough?

What about proving it ?


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Oh... We live in a selfish world. There is nothing called as love. Everything is a business.

Everything is about profitability. So, why bother?

Why get hurt?

Why go through the turmoil, when we can just fake it?

Why not stick to 'white lies'?

Because, people never change.

And we cannot change anyone..

So, we don't even 'try'!!!


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So, that just basically means 'We are losers'.


We have accepted defeat even before entering the race.

Oh... I am a pain in the a**


Why do we even have to talk about it?

Ohh...  So, when your conscience got a little turmoil.. you just shun it away?

Why? Because, we refuse to accept it.

We are too weak. Too vulnerable.

We are.. not loved enough. To actually love someone else.

So, we continue in the conquest of life, where there is no satisfaction. . . .

And so, I pity thy Life.


We fail in knowing how to love, be loved truely, deeply, unconditionally.




So, how can we succeed?


Just Love. Everyone knows it naturally. Bring it out. Be more honest to yourself. Stop shunning your conscience for once.

Face it. And if you fail at it. What's to lose, really?

I know what, The Ego. Well, that's good if it goes...


Being real and true to self harmed nobody.


   Keep thinking!

Who live without Love - Part 1

Dumbledore's statement strikes a chord.

He is absolutely right in his statement. For people, who live without love, I feel pity.


Love. That feeling, that emotion.

There are married couples, with children who say that they may not exactly love each other.

There are children who do not entirely love their parents.

There are even parents who do not love their children so much.


It's a pity. Really!



It's not a false relationship. But, some kind of 'by the way' or an obligatory relationship.

How can that happen?

When, even with friends, we experience that love and warmth. Oh, don't get started on "friendzOned stuff".


Well, we may not love everybody we speak to but,there's got to be a person or even a pet whom we love with all our heart.



And yes, I also pity those who may have it but fail to be able to express it.


What happened?

Why are we afraid to say 'I love you'?

To give a warm hug or just that loving look?

Why do we keep so aloof and pretend to be robots without feelings?


And, most importantly, why the heck, we start judging our own selves about how stupid we will look if we did all that?

Does showing love really affect your self-image?

Seriously, dude? Get a real mirror.

Open your eyes as to where are we going.

And some of them, even get ashamed by it.. like the show in the movies. A child asking his mother to stop kissing in public.


Sometimes, we become so involved into smaller things that we forget to see the clear picture. Like, living in a pixel of an image.

We need to come above it. And see, reflect, what's more important to us?

Keep thinking!

Continued in part 2

http://thinkinganagha.blogspot.in/2017/02/who-live-without-love-part-2.html?m=1

Romance

Romance..

This word itself, lights one up.

Lucky are the ones who get to experience that!

I am not an envious person in daily life, although, when I see a romantic gesture by some sweet guy for his girl, I feel a little bit of ' l want that!'.

Now, what's really romance ?

I am sure each individual will have their own definition. Be it the cliché  of candlelight dinner or the philosophical cooking and cleaning together.. Romance can be different for different people.

Some people say it with their eyes or gestures and some by their expressions and conversations.

I don't know why men or women sidetrack their romance.. It is as essential for a relationship as communication is.

Romance may have different meanings for different people but, just the thought of it, is amazing!

For all the lovely couples out there.. Don't let that romance go away from your lives!

Be it those sweet nothings, filmy dialogues, Little white lies or appreciatory notes..

Whatever it is which you like or your style is..

Keep that romance alive.

Say a little compliment to your partner or just pull their cheeks or kiss them on forehead once a while..

Take them for a drive or picnic or a surprise getaway.. Roses.. Lilies.. Reading a novel together or watching that new show on TLC..
Cycling together.. Or simply walking, hand in hand.. Feeling how lucky is to have that special person!

Showing love is really important.. Not always, will the idea of 'reading the eyes' work.

Don't take things for granted..

Enjoy it until it lasts.. Hope it lasts forever!

Keep thinking..!!